Well everyone have their own things to worry with it would seem and while we all worry about these things one thing is for certain our pasts will haunt us untill we turn and face them no matter what the result.

I do not speak of our hatred for other or things of that sort oh no I speak of the things that haunt us in the backs of our minds such as a lost love and what might have been we never know what would have happened back thing the only thing we all know is that it was not meant to be and we are on our own once again or with someone new.

We have 2 choices at this point face this past or run from it and keep dwelling on it hell I have just faced this myself seeing the pics of your exes new baby and it runs through your mind hey that could have been my family and my child but instead your in a dead end job struggling through college both good choices in their own merit but in the instance of the ex they cheated on me and so we were not meant to be and I moved on

I used to look back and think of what might have been but i locked it in my mind tight and hid it shutting it out pretending that it did not exist but seeing that picture I will admit almost made me cry the feelings of her and the past spilled into my mind and attacked me for the most part I did not cry for her though I have no desire to do such a thing

I will say in this sense we must block them out and do our best to move on it is what I have done and I am happy and I love who I am with right now I hope someone takes my words to heart